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Abused and taken for granted by fren

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Written by maggie Sep 17 2008 08:25 PM

I've been v sweet to this fren .. been v understanding. Unfortunately things were ugly when i bought drinks for her fren. When i buy for her, she poured them away, tell me to f off and say she doesnt want to tok to me. I really cried .. coz i know i dun deserve such treatment. What did i do wrong? Jus coz i bought her fren drinks? They are gd room mates. But i duno why she so jealous and angry.

Im tryin to cut this fren off by not responding to any sms/call shd that happen.

Well, whatever it is i will take the responsibility coz i didnt say no and be assertive, thats y ppl will take advantage of u. I did it coz I didnt want her to be unhapi with me. Because of her, I spend so much on on credit card more than 10k. Duno y i do this to myself. Esp when im not working .. went to see doc, but didnt help at all.

Anyway ive had enuff and do not wish to continue this frenship anymore. And learn my lesson. To surround myself with frens who will be nice to me.

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Comments from the community:

m so sori 2 hear abt the abuse-- u noe, familiarity breeds contempt... so if it hv 2 end up in abuse/ taken advtg of, or there's no more respect or value, it's good 2b independent-or try to-- instead of under someone's ctrl/being held ransom due to some unexplained guilt complex or co dependency, take good care or urslf...

Written by 71damsel, Sep 17 2008 11:33 PM