Action
You can change the way you feel by finding comforting things which you can say to yourself and believe in. It is actually very harmful for you to keep on thinking unreal negative thoughts. This is because they keep the pain alive.
Perhaps you don't believe you have the energy to change the way you think. But in cognitive therapy, it will prepare a plan with you to make it easier. You can also use the "thought form" below to help you change your negative thoughts at any time.
Realistic goals
It is important to remain active. Depressed people are inclined to avoid situations which seem insurmountable. We recommend you learn to set small and realistic goals.
Perhaps, you don't believe you have the energy to do anything. But remember you can increase your energy levels by keeping yourself going.
You can keep yourself going if you experience meaningful things. Therefore, it is important for you to continue to do things that gave you pleasure and interest.
Action helps
Life gets easier when you learn to analyse your thoughts, feelings and actions. This is because the way you think and feel is linked to the way in which you respond & react. You can see the link between thoughts, feelings and actions here:
The above thoughts and feelings can lead to many actions. But these actions can also lead to physical reactions such as
- tiredness
- periods of intense sweating
- palpitations
Catastrophic thoughts
Depression can lead to many physical symptoms such as tiredness, spells of intense sweating and pains in the chest. These symptoms can be easily misinterpreted as something physical rather than psychological.
- I haven't got the energy to do anything anymore, so I'm no use to anyone anymore
- There is no hope
- I am useless at everything
- I am dying. There is something wrong with my heart
But such catastrophic thoughts have no basis at all. Ultimately, ask yourself what is comforting and healing instead of negative thoughts.
Perhaps you could say to yourself:
- I am not very sociable at the moment but I am still useful
- I am finding things a bit difficult at the moment but it will pass
- I am not feeling well at the moment but I will take one thing at a time
- I am vulnerable and hurting a lot at the moment, but anxiety is not dangerous, and it will pass
It is important to remember negative thoughts are symptoms. The foundations of these symptoms can be laid down early in your life and they can therefore be difficult to change.
If you have many catastrophic thoughts and find it difficult to restructure them, you can always seek help from a professional cognitive therapist. You can always do something! You can always help yourself!
Break the circle!